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At By Rebecca, we know memorial jewellery is more than something beautiful – it’s a way to keep a loved one close. Each piece tells a unique story, created with care, respect, and sensitivity.
Our small Bespoke Jewellery team gently guides you through every step, helping you choose how best to honour your loved one — through ashes, handwriting, fingerprints, hair, or heirloom gold. We stay closely connected throughout, sharing updates and photos so you feel part of the journey.
This isn’t just an order — it’s a personal tribute, and we’re honoured to walk beside you.
We can gently place your loved one’s ashes into your jewellery in two meaningful ways:
We create an enclosed stone setting, and cast the ashes into resin, which is then safely held behind a gemstone of your choosing. This creates a strong and lasting keepsake, without exposure to wear or the elements.
You can choose from a selection of gemstones, which we can source for you. Coloured birthstone gemstones add their own symbolism and can also be paired beautifully with the ashes behind, or perhaps you have a special heirloom stone that we can use in the design?
Sometimes clear stones allow the ashes to remain visible as a subtle grey twinkle, but this is not guaranteed as each ash colouring is different.
With this technique, we create a wee secret chamber within the metal of your piece and gently place the ashes into this hidden chamber, which is then sealed with a precious metal door.
We often use a contrasting metal tone to mark where the chamber lies, so you always know where your loved one rests. We’ll send you a photo of the ashes placed inside the jewellery before sealing the chamber, offering comfort, connection, and trust in the process.
This option is available in pieces with a thicker metal thickness of 2mm or more and can only be used with fine ashes. We offer this service as standard in all precious metal rings, our wee winter robin collection and memorial heart pendants. We can design and make any custom piece of jewellery to suit this special service as long as the chamber sits within a thick enough piece of metal.
Some memories deserve to be etched forever.
Our laser engraving service allows us to inscribe exact handwriting, fingerprints, or even delicate drawings onto your piece. From a handwritten note found in a birthday card, to a child’s doodle or a thumbprint pressed onto paper, we can hold that moment forever in precious metal.
Available on a wide range of rings, bangles, pendants and charms, as long as the surface is suitable.
A signature, message, or note in their own handwriting
A doodle, a paw print, a symbol you hold dear
We know pets are family too and their memory deserves to be honoured with just as much care and love.
We can include:
Whether it’s pet ashes held within a pendant, or a custom piece designed to keep your companion close, we’ll work with you to create something truly special.
Many of our customers choose to blend our services to honour their loved one in a way that’s completely unique. We can combine melting down heirloom gold and shaping it into something new with adding their ashes, a fingerprint, or a signature from a treasured card, to create a unique piece that tells your whole story in one.
Creating meaningful memorial jewellery is a special journey, and we’re here to guide you through it. At By Rebecca Jewellery. Our skilled team of goldsmiths can create a very unique bespoke piece of memorial jewellery – combining all or some of the services listed above – we can even incorporate an element of the Reloved remodelling process to your bespoke piece too.
Have you inherited some gold from a loved one and have a sentimental card with their handwriting on it? We can melt the gold down to create a new remodelled ring with a sentimental stone and have the cherished handwriting incorporated into the ring band, for example.
We will send you a link to our calender to invite you to book an appointment with Rebecca, our Creative Director or our Bespoke Team – either in person at our Kinross studios or if you are further afield – by WhatsApp Video/Zoom. If you are unsure if you need a Creative Director appointment we can review your potential project and advise if we feel your project requires Rebeccas expertise.
You’ll also receive our Bespoke WhatsApp business number where you can send us photos of your jewellery and ideal reference images, so be sure to keep an eye on your inbox for a response.
We’ll send you clear instructions on how to safely send your ashes or other inclusions to us.
From start to finish, we’ll keep in touch. We use WhatsApp for photos, updates and messages, so you always know your piece is in good hands.
This is more than jewellery. This is a love letter in metal and stone. A quiet remembrance. A connection that never fades.
We are here to honour it with you.
Warmest wishes
Rebecca and the Team xxx
